Yesterday was the anniversary of when we got Daphne. Our beautiful, gorgeous, too smart for her own good girl. I wanted to jot this down just like I did with Arlo, because as time goes on I'd like to be able to remember these days and what happened, but like with Arlo there is a little bit of a backstory on how we got Daphne.
After we brought Arlo home, we started looking into getting a playmate for him. We had no intention of leaving him alone when T went back to work and it didn't seem fair that he would be home on his own once the end of January came. So we looked into adopting from the RSPCA.
We found a beautiful boy that we loved, but due to Arlo's age and lack of shots at that stage the people at the RSPCA couldn't safely say that he would be safe from anything in the meeting areas. Just because they knew the dogs under their care were vaccinated and fine, it didn't mean people with dogs who had brought them in to meet other dogs were as protected. With that knowledge, we decided that despite the fact that we wanted to adopt, we may have to go down a different road to ensure that Arlo got a playmate.
So T started looking of Gumtree for any dogs that needed to be rehomed. We knew that Arlo was going to be good around older dogs. Since about a week after he came home, we had been looking after Eli - T's brother J's dog - and Bolt - J's housemate's dog - while they were moving into a new house. Arlo loved the other dogs and they just let him walk all over him - literally.
After a couple of days of looking, T turned to me one night and showed me a picture of a litter of puppies. They were German Shepherd cross rottweiler/kelpies and there were four in total. One girl was left. They were ready to go home at 8 weeks which was two weeks away. Looking at T's face I knew that he had fallen totally in love.
They were nearly totally black, with touches of tan and I really wish now that I had saved those photos like I had with Arlo, but before I was able to the ad was taken down. T had immediately agreed to take her and just like that we were set to get another puppy, and not a fully grown dog like we had planned.
Over the next two weeks, we discussed names and T kept going back to Daphne. Why? Becuase he still wanted to call Arlo Scooby Doo and what is Scooby without a Daphne. Plus she kind of looked like a redhead in spots.
Soon the day came and we made the half hour drive to pick her up, leaving Arlo at home just to be safe.
Daphne was so little. I had thought Arlo was tiny but she was so little. She had a little bump on the side of her nose and she was just so sweet. And just like T had done for me with Arlo, I did the same with him for Daphne. She became his early Christmas present. The handover was so smooth and we were heading home within 10 minutes of chatting with the owners.
We did make one stop on the way home, and that was to get Daphne a collar and name tag. Just as we had done for Arlo.
Then the moment of truth had arrived: How was Arlo going to react?
He was excited but didn't know how to play with a smaller dog, so that took a little bit of time to work out for him. Luckily, Daphne was smart and she didn't let Arlo get things over her. Within ten minutes we had them outside and Daphne was giving as good as she got to Arlo.
Like Arlo stuck with me, Daphne stuck with T. She has always been his girl. Every chance she gets she snuggles up to him and then just gives me this look. The funny thing is that T was adamant that he wanted to get a male dog and yet this little girl has managed to get him wrapped around her finger. Or paw if you wish.
A lot has changed since we got her, but most of that is the way she looks. She's no longer that mostly black puppy and she's still as smart as the day we got her. Actually, thinking about it, she's a lot smarter. Since we brought her home she's worked out how to open the doors to go outside, which is why the front screen door in particular needs to be locked.
She also no longer has a little bump on her nose. I kind of miss it.
Until next time,
(aka - Sophie)
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Tuesday, 4 December 2018
Christmas Decorating Story Time
I've known since I first got together with T that he didn't like Christmas.
What I mean by that is that he has never liked the decorating side of Christmas. He enjoys getting together with family and all of that, he just doesn't like the decorating side of things. I, on the other hand, enjoy decorating a Christmas tree, so we're totally a match made in heaven.
Even though T doesn't like decorating, he handles the fact that I do by teasing me and this year was no different, only decorating this year didn't get off to a great start.
On Friday I asked T if he could get the stuff down so I could decorate while he was working. He totally forgot to do it so I had to get up on the ladder and I have no concept of balance. I'm at the point now that no one is surprised when I hurt myself.
After getting everything down I brought it in and discovered that the very pretty fairy lights I bought last year were a tangled mess. And I do mean a mess. See these were those ones that weren't covered in plastic. Those pretty, dainty ones, where the wire was out and they were tiny and look delicate and they have to be wrapped up properly otherwise they become a tangled mess, and when T packed everything away he didn't wrap them up properly.
I was annoyed, really annoyed by that. T is what I jokingly call borderline OCD. He likes things a particular way, so him not packing the lights away properly annoyed me.
After fighting with them for an hour and telling T our new rule is that he isn't allowed to touch the Christmas Tree to pack it away, even if that means he has to wait until February for it to disappear, I went out to buy new pretty light and had to settle for stars. All of the lights I wanted were gone.
Frustrated I went to run a couple of errands and came back a lot calmer - which was good because T had arrived back home. The Christmas Tree then went up and life continued on.
Only in my decorating, I forgot to factor in two other household members - well, actually one household member. Arlo didn't want a bar of the Christmas Tree and we had to coax him past it for 24 hours in order to go outside because the room where the Christmas Tree is is also the way out to our backyard.
Daphne, on the other hand, took to the tree very well. A little too well. By the end of the day she had secretly squirreled away two ornaments and destroyed them. This then lead to a late night, small argument between T and I in which I got frustrated with him because instead of barricading the tree he decided that the only way to stop Daphne from getting the ornaments was to hide the tree in my office. I love him but he didn't need to hide the tree.
The next day I brought it back out, created my barricade and there have been no more ornament deaths in 24 hours. So things did not go as planned but I did get the tree up and T is thankfully dealing with my use of our dining chairs.
Until next time,
(aka - Sophie)
What I mean by that is that he has never liked the decorating side of Christmas. He enjoys getting together with family and all of that, he just doesn't like the decorating side of things. I, on the other hand, enjoy decorating a Christmas tree, so we're totally a match made in heaven.
Even though T doesn't like decorating, he handles the fact that I do by teasing me and this year was no different, only decorating this year didn't get off to a great start.
On Friday I asked T if he could get the stuff down so I could decorate while he was working. He totally forgot to do it so I had to get up on the ladder and I have no concept of balance. I'm at the point now that no one is surprised when I hurt myself.
After getting everything down I brought it in and discovered that the very pretty fairy lights I bought last year were a tangled mess. And I do mean a mess. See these were those ones that weren't covered in plastic. Those pretty, dainty ones, where the wire was out and they were tiny and look delicate and they have to be wrapped up properly otherwise they become a tangled mess, and when T packed everything away he didn't wrap them up properly.
I was annoyed, really annoyed by that. T is what I jokingly call borderline OCD. He likes things a particular way, so him not packing the lights away properly annoyed me.
After fighting with them for an hour and telling T our new rule is that he isn't allowed to touch the Christmas Tree to pack it away, even if that means he has to wait until February for it to disappear, I went out to buy new pretty light and had to settle for stars. All of the lights I wanted were gone.
Frustrated I went to run a couple of errands and came back a lot calmer - which was good because T had arrived back home. The Christmas Tree then went up and life continued on.
Only in my decorating, I forgot to factor in two other household members - well, actually one household member. Arlo didn't want a bar of the Christmas Tree and we had to coax him past it for 24 hours in order to go outside because the room where the Christmas Tree is is also the way out to our backyard.
Daphne, on the other hand, took to the tree very well. A little too well. By the end of the day she had secretly squirreled away two ornaments and destroyed them. This then lead to a late night, small argument between T and I in which I got frustrated with him because instead of barricading the tree he decided that the only way to stop Daphne from getting the ornaments was to hide the tree in my office. I love him but he didn't need to hide the tree.
The next day I brought it back out, created my barricade and there have been no more ornament deaths in 24 hours. So things did not go as planned but I did get the tree up and T is thankfully dealing with my use of our dining chairs.
Until next time,
(aka - Sophie)